The question of how to save my marriage has been posed to me and my staff on countless occasions, usually by a distraught individual whom is seemingly in the grips of some toxic relationship matter spiraling out of control. Couples will enter into a marriage or romantic relationship with lifelong plans and dreams and often times come to find that more is revealed down the road. Whatever the case may be, whether it’s a persistent inability to see the world and/or situations from similar viewpoints or whether there exists a complete inability to resolve differences, as long as the love remains there must be a steadfast commitment to resolving such matters so that the greatness of the relationship may rise once again.
When people enter into a marriage they commonly come into it thinking that each person will complement the other by bringing in their own history, knowledge and experiences. Over time they are provided with ample opportunity to test this belief while in a forum that is constantly adding new variables into the equation. All of a sudden when the ongoing attempt at self-resolution becomes overwhelming and seemingly ineffective they often run toward quick “how to save my marriage” fixes such as magazine articles, run-of the-mill marriage counselors and many others… What they so often fail to realize is that in so many cases the discord exists both, multiple and deeper levels. It isn’t simply about disagreement or inability to compromise; it’s about literally seeing a given issue through an entirely different set of eyeglasses.
Your marriage is a sacred union and when problems it merits true solutions, solutions that are long-term in nature. The words of “how to save my marriage” must precede something more than run-of-the mill counseling services. Something this special calls for only the very best and we’re honored to play that role in something you hold so near & dear.
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